Guides and advice

Welcome to the BDSMKing guides. Good gear is only half the story. Knowing how to choose it, how to use it and how to keep play safe is what turns a purchase into a favourite. Our guides are written for curious beginners and experienced players alike, with honest information about sizes, materials and technique, and always with consent and safety first.

Every guide links directly to the products we stock and to the right departments, so you can go from reading to choosing without searching. We write about the questions our customers ask us most: where to start, what to buy next and how to take play further without taking risks.

Our guides

BDSM gear for beginners: what to buy first. Restraints, blindfolds, impact toys and collars, plus safewords, safety shears and aftercare.

Flogger, paddle or whip. Thud and sting, paddles, floggers, crops, canes and whips compared, where to strike and how to warm up.

How to choose a chastity cage. How to measure, silicone, polycarbonate or steel, the Gates of Hell, keyholding and wearing a cage for longer.

Sex bench, sling or bondage chair. BDSM furniture compared by space, budget and play style, with load limits and set-up tips.

Electro sex for beginners. How e-stim works, stimulators, pads, loops and plugs, and the safety rules that always apply.

Moby Huge dildo and giant XXL dildos. The Moby range and the other XXL dildos and plugs we stock, with advice on training, lube, positions and safety.

Popular departments

• Bondage and Restraints: cuffs, rope, tape, spreader bars and complete kits.
• Spanking and Impact Play: paddles, floggers, whips, crops and canes.
• Chastity: cages in polycarbonate, silicone and stainless steel.
• Furniture and Machines: slings, swings, benches, crosses and sex machines.
• Sensation and Electro Play: e-stim units, electrodes, wax and Wartenberg wheels.
• Double and XXL Dildos: from double dongs to the Moby Huge.