Collars & Pet Play
A collar is one of the most meaningful items in BDSM, a symbol of trust, ownership or simply a look you love. This category covers leather and vegan leather collars, chokers and leashes from Red Leather and XR Brands, studded collar and lead sets, plus pup hoods, tail plugs and puppy gear for pet play. Choose a subtle day collar or a statement piece for scenes and club nights.

Ouch! Venice Collection Leather Collar Leash

Red Leather Bondage Collar Hand Restraints

Prowler Red Puppy Muzzle Yellow Neoprene

Prowler Red Puppy Muzzle Black Neoprene

Ouch! Diamond Pattern Neoprene Collar with Leash

Ouch! Neoprene Puppy Collar with Leash

XR Brands Tracer Faux Leather Tracking Collar

XR Brands Pup Mask with Breathable Gag

XR Brands Submission Master Series Collar Clamps

Ouch! Silicone Devil Tail Plug Red and Black

XR Brands Woof XL Silicone Puppy Tail Plug

Steel by Shots Heavy Metal Lead Restraint

Ouch! Glow-in-Dark Puppy Tail Butt Plug

Prowler Red Puppy Muzzle Blue Neoprene

Prowler Red Puppy Muzzle Red Neoprene

XR Brands Metal Swivel Handle Leash

Ouch! Velcro Collar with Chain Leash and Cuffs

Prowler Red Puppy Muzzle White Neoprene

Ouch! Metal Tail Plug with Arrowhead Design

Prowler Red Silicone Puppy Tail Plug Black

XR Brands Collared Temptress, Adjustable Collar Nipple Clamp Set

M Proud Proud Puppy Fan 64cm Span Inscription

Red Leather Breast Clamps with Chain Lead

Red Leather Ultra Band Necklace, White
Choosing a collar
Think first about when you will wear it. A slim choker or a velvet collar can pass as jewellery, while wide leather posture collars with a D ring are clearly made for play. Leather softens and shapes itself to the neck over time; vegan leather and neoprene are easier to clean. For a secure fit, check that the buckle is adjustable and that you can slide two fingers between collar and neck.
Leashes and restraint sets
A leash adds a physical link between partners and is mostly symbolic, so never pull hard on the neck. Some collars come with matching hand restraints or detachable chains for more structured play; our cuffs and restraints combine well with a collar on its D ring.
Pet play
Pet play lets one partner take on the role of a puppy, kitten or pony, with all the playful, affectionate behaviour that comes with it. Pup hoods give a strong visual identity, tails with a plug base add a wagging finish, and mitts or kneepads make crawling comfortable. Choose tail plugs in body safe silicone, start with a small size and use plenty of lube; see butt plugs for help with sizing.
Care
Wipe leather collars with a damp cloth and condition them occasionally. Wash fabric and neoprene by hand and clean tail plugs after every use with a toy cleaner.
Frequently asked questions
How tight should a BDSM collar be?
Two fingers should fit comfortably underneath. A collar should never restrict breathing or blood flow, and you should never pull hard on it or hang weight from the neck. Choose a wide, padded collar for longer wear, and make sure it can always be opened quickly, with a buckle or a quick release.
Can I wear a collar in public?
Many people do. A discreet day collar or choker in leather or metal looks like a fashion accessory, so only those who know understand its meaning. Save heavy collars with O-rings and padlocks for private play, and choose skin-friendly materials if you want to wear a collar all day.
What do I need to start pet play?
A collar, a leash and a shared idea of the role: puppy, kitten or pony, for example. Hoods, tails, mitts and knee pads can follow once you know what you enjoy. Agree on rules and a non-verbal stop signal beforehand, because a pet usually does not speak during play.
How do I care for collars and pet play gear?
Wipe leather with a damp cloth and treat it now and then with leather care. Neoprene and silicone gear can be washed with warm water and mild soap. Clean tail plugs like any anal toy, with warm water and soap or a toy cleaner, and let everything dry before you store it.