Kinky starter gifts
A first taste of kink, without the intimidating stuff. These 96 starter gifts are easy to use and easy to give: bondage starter kits, soft and furry cuffs, satin blindfolds, feather ticklers and crops, small paddles, collars with a leash, nipple clamps and kinky dice games from Ouch!, XR Brands, Red Leather, Crushious and Kheper Games. Every gift costs between €10 and €51, most around €22, an affordable way into BDSM for someone who is curious.

Ouch! Leather Restraint Cuffs with D-Ring

Crushious Punisher Black Leather Bondage Kit

Ouch! Venice Collection Leather Collar Leash

Red Leather Double Paddle, 45cm

Red Leather Black Eye Mask, Vegetable Tanned

Crushious Temptation Massage Candle Toffee Caramel

Ouch! Fluffy Multicolor Plush Mask

Red Leather Breast Clamps with Chain Lead

Kheper Games Metallic Dice Set Foreplay Sexplay

XR Brands Captivate Collar with Detachable Chain Leash

Crushious Lust Silver Metal Handcuffs, Safety Release

Crushious Satin Blindfold Twin Pack

S-Line Kink Exploration Dice Couples Play

Ouch! Feather Tickler for Sensation Scenes

Ouch! Crop with Tickle Feather in Black

Ouch! Red Soft Eye Mask, Dual Purpose

Ouch! Beginner's Furry Handcuffs in Black

Crushious Silk Massage Candle Vanilla Scent

Doc Johnson The Code Silicone Ring with Light Blue

Crushious Spangle Metal Handcuffs Black

Crushious Master & Cummander Bondage Kit

Crushious Lover's Dream Bondage Kit

Crushious Adjustable Under-Bed Restraint Set with Velcro Cuffs

XR Brands Bound Goddess Red Pillar Candle
A first kinky gift should make someone curious, not nervous. Soft materials, simple gear and nothing that needs a manual.
Restraint
A bondage kit has everything for a first evening in one box. Soft cuffs with Velcro or buckles are easy to put on and quick to release. Rope is for the patient; start with simple wrists ties.
Sensation
A blindfold makes every touch stronger. A feather tickler, a Wartenberg wheel or a soft flogger add variety without pain.
Light impact
A small paddle is a playful start. Warm up with your hand first and stay on the fleshy parts.
What is the best first BDSM gift?
A bondage starter kit: cuffs, a blindfold and a tickler in one box. Gentle enough for a first time, enough variety to find what you like.
Do we need a safeword?
Yes, always. Pick a word that never comes up in play, or use traffic lights: green, yellow, red.
Is the parcel discreet?
Yes, a plain box with no logo and no product description.