Couples & Strap-ons

Strap-ons and harnesses

A strap-on lets anyone take the penetrating role. Harnesses come as adjustable belts, briefs and jockstrap designs, and many accept dildos with a flat base through an O ring. Strapless strap-ons have a bulb that sits inside the wearer, so both partners feel something. Hollow strap-ons are worn over a penis and suit men who want extra size or support. Check the size chart on harness pages and measure your hips before you order.

Couples vibrators

Couples vibrators are designed to be worn during penetration, stimulating both partners at once. Look for a flexible shape that adapts to different bodies, a strong but quiet motor and ideally a remote or app control, so either partner can take charge.

Starting together

Talk first about what each of you would like to try, and go slowly the first time. Use plenty of water based lube from our lubricants range and choose a modest size; you can always go bigger later. Couples sets are a good way to explore several toys without committing to one.

Care

Clean the dildo and any vibrating parts after use with a toy cleaner or warm soapy water. Wash fabric harnesses by hand and wipe leather or vinyl ones with a damp cloth.