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Suomi Strap-ons
A strap-on lets anyone take the lead. This shelf covers harness and dildo sets, vibrating strap-on panties and thongs, strapless models that stay in place on their own and hollow strap-ons that fit over a penis. Doc Johnson brings complete harness sets and a pegging kit, XR Brands the Evoke strapless range, and RealRock hollow and vibrating designs.
Ouch! Ribbed Silicone Strap-on Black
RealRock Compact Hollow Strap-On 15.5cm
Ouch! Realistic Strap-on Glow Harness
XR Brands Royal Rider Strapless Dildo Vibrating
Doc Johnson Harness and Silicone Dong Combo Set
VIVE Suki Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Purple
RealRock Hollow Strap-On 24.5cm Flexible Silicone
Ouch! Glow Curved Strap-on Neon Green
Ouch! Glow Twisted Strap-on Neon Green
Ouch! Pleasure Silicone Strap-on Dildo
Ouch! Belt with Vibrator Holder
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-On 24.5cm Silicone
RealRock Hollow Strap-On 24.5cm Flexible Extended
XR Brands Double Take Vibrating Penetration Harness
XR Brands Velvet Kiss Strap-On Harness Ring
XR Brands Royal Rider Vibrating Silicone Strapless
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Extended 24.5cm
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Compact 15.5cm
RealRock Vibrating Strap-on Large Balls
RealRock Vibrating Strap-on Balls 18
Ouch! Realistic Treasure Strap-on Sleeve
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Large 24.5cm
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Smooth 20.5cm
RealRock Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Compact
Harness, strapless or hollow
A harness with an O ring holds a separate dildo and is the most versatile choice; check that the dildo has a flared base. Panty and thong harnesses feel more like underwear. Strapless strap-ons have a bulb that the wearer holds inside, which gives both partners sensation but takes some practice. Hollow strap-ons fit over a penis and suit couples who want extra size or play when an erection is not cooperating. For more options on a penis, see penis sleeves and extenders.
Pegging basics
Start small, with a slim dildo and lots of lubricant, and let the receiving partner set the pace. Warm up with fingers or a butt plug first. Adjust the straps so the base sits firmly on the pubic bone; a loose harness is hard to control.
Frequently asked questions
Do strap-on harnesses come in sizes?
Most harnesses are adjustable and fit a wide range of hips, thanks to buckles or elastic straps; the size chart is on the product page. Jockstrap and thong styles have a fixed size, so check your hip measurement before you order. A harness that sits close to the body gives the most control.
Can I add a vibrator to a strap-on?
Yes, many harnesses have a pocket for a bullet vibrator behind the O-ring, which adds sensation for the wearer. Some strap-on dildos have a built-in vibrator or a channel for a bullet. Vibrating strapless models stimulate both partners at the same time, without any straps.
What size strap-on dildo should we choose for pegging?
Start smaller than you think: a smooth, slim dildo of about 3 cm wide and 12 to 15 cm long is ideal for first pegging. A slight curve can reach the prostate. Use plenty of anal lube, go slowly and let the receiving partner set the pace throughout.
Which harness material is most comfortable?
Neoprene and soft fabric harnesses are comfortable, flexible and easy to wash, which makes them ideal for beginners. Leather is sturdier, gives more control and lasts for years, but needs a little care. Harnesses with wide straps distribute pressure best during longer sessions.