Butt Plugs & Dilators

Around 2.5 to 3 cm at the widest point, in smooth silicone, with a narrow neck and a flared base. A training set with three sizes lets you move up step by step. Width matters far more than length, so check the diameter on the product page before you choose a bigger plug.

Start with fifteen to thirty minutes and build up as it feels comfortable. With the right size and enough lube, many people wear a plug for an hour or two. Remove it if you feel any pain, burning or numbness, and give your body a break between longer sessions.

A set of smooth plugs or rods in gradually increasing sizes, used to train and relax the muscles step by step. Many people use dilators to prepare for bigger toys. Move up one size at a time, use plenty of lube and never force anything; progress over days or weeks, not in one session.

Try anal beads or an anal vibrator for movement and new sensations, or a prostate massager if you have a prostate. Inflatable plugs and tunnel plugs suit those who want to explore stretching. Whatever you choose, keep using a flared base and plenty of lube.