Anal Play

Starting out

The anus has no natural lubrication and two sphincter muscles that need time to relax, so begin small and go slowly. A slim plug or a set of graduated trainers lets you build up step by step. Always choose a toy with a flared base or a retrieval loop, because anything without one can slip inside.

Materials and shapes

Medical grade silicone is soft, warms to the body and is easy to clean, which makes it the best all round choice. Glass, acrylic and steel are firmer, hold temperature and suit experienced users. Tapered plugs are made to stay in place, beads are about the sensation of each ball passing, and prostate massagers curve forwards to reach the prostate. Vibrating models add a buzz that many people love during partnered sex.

Lube is not optional

Use plenty of lubricant every time. Water based lube suits all toy materials; silicone lube lasts longer but can damage silicone toys, so use it only with glass, steel or acrylic. Thicker formulas from our lubricants range are made with anal play in mind. Avoid numbing products, since pain is a signal you should listen to.

Hygiene and care

Many people like to rinse beforehand with a douche. Wash toys after every use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, and never move a toy from anal to vaginal use without cleaning it or changing the condom.

Frequently asked questions