Dildos

Realistic or fantasy

Realistic dildos mimic veins, a defined head and sometimes balls, and dual density materials give a firm core with a softer outer layer that feels close to skin. Fantasy dildos play with colours, tentacles, ridges and textures that nothing in nature offers. Smooth, curved shapes made for G-spot or prostate stimulation sit somewhere in between.

Choosing size

Length matters less than you might think; girth is what you feel most. Compare the insertable length and diameter on the product page with a toy you already own, or start with a slim model of around three to four centimetres in diameter. XXL and double dildos are for experienced users who warm up properly and use plenty of lubricant.

Materials

Silicone is body safe, warms quickly and is easy to clean. Glass and stainless steel are firm, can be warmed or cooled for temperature play and last a lifetime. Avoid storing silicone toys touching each other, which can damage the surface. Use water based lube with silicone, and any type with glass and steel.

Suction cups and harnesses

A suction cup lets you mount a dildo on a smooth surface for hands free fun. Dildos with a flat base and a clear ridge often fit a harness; see our strap-ons for compatible harnesses, or attach one to a machine from sex machines.