Moby Huge and giant dildos: the guide to XXL play

Few toys get as much attention as the Moby Huge. Standing just under a metre tall, it is the dildo people photograph, talk about and dare each other with. This guide explains what the Moby range really is, which giant dildos and plugs we stock for actual play, and how to build up to XXL size safely: with patience, the right lube and a training plan.

The Moby range: Moby Huge and Moby Super

XR Brands makes the Moby in two sizes. The Moby Huge Long Dildo in flesh and the Moby Huge in black are just under a metre tall, with a maximum diameter of 20.7 cm, sculpted in firm, flexible PVC from the balls to the tip. Let us be honest: the Moby Huge is first of all a statement piece. It is the centrepiece of a playroom, a party or a collection, and adventurous players use only the tip and the first section for penetration.

The Moby Super Dildo measures 60 cm and is the more practical of the two for size play, but it is still a toy for people with real experience of large toys. Neither Moby is a first giant dildo. Think of them as the end of a journey, not the start.

Giant dildos to actually play with

Between an average toy and a Moby there is a wide choice of XXL dildos in our Double and XXL Dildos department. A few that size lovers keep coming back to:

• RealRock Extra Large Straight Dildo 38 cm: 33 cm insertable and a maximum diameter of 7.6 cm, realistic, with a suction cup base. A sensible step up in length.
• Fuck & Fist Buri XL: 27 cm insertable, widening from 9 cm to 10.5 cm, curved, with a removable suction cup. For players who have outgrown standard sizes.
• XR Brands The Titan: a maximum diameter of 10.2 cm with veined detail. Serious girth for experienced players.
• XR Brands Leviathan: a giant inflatable silicone dildo, 53.5 cm long. Once inserted, the bulb lets you add size step by step and release it again whenever you want.

How to start with a giant toy

Size play is about training, not force. The body gets used to larger toys over weeks and months, and the players who go furthest are the ones who never rush. Start at a size that already feels comfortable, then go up in small steps over several sessions. If a step feels like too much, go back one size and stay there for a while.

Warming up is not optional. Begin every session with fingers or a smaller toy, take your time to relax, and only move to the big toy when your body is ready. Breathe out slowly as you push, and let gravity and your own pace do the work rather than a partner's hand.

Train with plugs and dilators

Graduated plugs are the easiest way to build up in a controlled way. The Doc Johnson Tush Trainer gives you three silicone plugs of 10, 13 and 15 cm to work through. The XR Brands Giant Ribbed Cone widens from 3 cm to 9 cm over 26 cm of insertable length, so you decide exactly how far you stretch each time. When you want to hold a stretch for longer, the XR Brands Ass Max has a maximum width of 8 cm and a wide, stable base. You will find more trainer sets and large plugs under Butt Plugs and Dilators.

Lube: more than you think

With XXL toys, lube is the single most important accessory. Use a thick lube and reapply often. A water-based gel such as Fist It Extra Thick works with every toy material, including silicone. A hybrid such as Fist It Hybrid combines water and silicone and keeps its glide for longer. Pure silicone lube lasts longest of all, but keep it away from silicone toys like the Leviathan. Skip numbing gels for size play: you want to feel exactly what your body is telling you. Browse the full range in Lubricants.

Positions that help

On a first try with a big toy, control matters more than anything. A suction cup dildo on the floor or on a smooth wall lets you ride at your own speed and depth, and squatting or kneeling over it puts you fully in charge. Lying on your side with your knees pulled up is relaxed and good for slow insertion with a partner. Avoid positions where you cannot stop or pull back immediately.

Preparation and cleaning

Many players like to rinse before anal size play. A bulb douche such as the PerfectFitBrand Ergoflo Director is easy to control: use lukewarm water and do not overdo it. More options are in Hygiene and Douches. After play, wash your toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner such as Touché Toy Cleaner, let it dry completely and store it apart from your other toys, away from heat and direct sunlight.

Safety first

Stop when something hurts. Discomfort and a feeling of fullness are normal, sharp pain is not: it means you stop for today. Go slowly, never use force, and do not play when you are drunk or high. Bleeding, or pain that lasts after play, is a reason to stop and see a doctor. If you play with a partner, agree on a safeword or a clear signal in advance, and let the person receiving the toy set the pace.

How to choose your giant toy

• Measure what you already enjoy. Compare the diameter of your current favourite with the specifications of the next toy and go up by a small step, not a big one.
• Diameter matters more than length. A few millimetres of extra width feel like much more than a few centimetres of extra length.
• Pick a suction cup base if you want to ride at your own pace.
• Consider an inflatable if you want to adjust the size during a session.
• Buy the Moby Huge for what it is: a spectacular statement piece, of which you will really use only the first section.

Frequently asked questions

How big is the Moby Huge?

The Moby Huge stands just under a metre tall, with a maximum diameter of 20.7 cm. The Moby Super is the shorter version at 60 cm. The exact specifications are on each product page.

Can you actually use the Moby Huge?

Mostly it is a display and party piece. Very experienced size players use the tip and the first section; nobody uses the full length. For real XXL play, a toy like the Titan or the Buri XL is a more realistic goal.

How long does it take to train up to a giant dildo?

It differs for everyone. Count on weeks to months of regular, gentle training with graduated plugs and gradually larger toys. Listen to your body rather than to a schedule.

Which lube is best for XXL toys?

A thick water-based lube or a hybrid, applied generously and topped up often. Water-based works with every toy material. Silicone lube lasts longer but should not be used on silicone toys.